Friday, October 10, 2008
♥ Sian
he has a habit of magnifying shits... while i need a compass in life...
or isit... the other way round???
Life has been so boring and sian...why wannt make it worse..
i wanna go to maldives....
i am so random.....
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Here is a story to share from my ai....
After serious consideration and discussion with hubby, I’ve decided to write this entry regarding hubby’s ex girlfriend, SH**NA NE*.
Few days back I was browsing at who viewed my multiply site and I saw this name AMAZ**GJ**RNEY who came to view me 2 weeks ago. I thought who was that as the name seems rather fresh and when I clicked it, it was HER. That was a newly create site and it was such a ‘COINCIDENCE’ that SHE also used multiply as HER blog when there are so many others like Xanga, Wretch, Blogspot, Wordpress and so on. Maybe multiply is really good and USER FRIENDLY. Right ??
I’ve decided to leave a comment at HER site and this is what I wrote :
I thought who is this amaz**gj**rney who viewed my multiply and when i clicked it, it was u. What a surprise. Since you’ve sent me a SMILE on Friendster the last time, therefore I think I should leave a comment for you this time round. J
Thanks very much for viewing my multiply site and i wish to congrats u as from your multiply, I see that you'll be getting married soon. May u be as blissful as me.... oh... hope you'll be better off so that you'll have no regrets for what you've done.
Alright. I shall start my story now.
Hubby and I were together on 2nd sept 06 and after a few days we were together, SHE sent him 2 message on Friendster. Too bad hubby deleted his Friendster account. If not I can cut and paste the whole message here for you all to see. I don’t really remember exactly what SHE wrote but the 1st message was something like that –
Hi, seems like you have a new girlfriend now. If you don’t dare to admit that She, ‘VON’ is your girlfriend. Then I shall just assume it.. Please be fair to me and her. Tell me the truth as im feeling very miserable as im still trying hard for you. Thank you for treating me so good for the past 4 years. If she is really your girlfriend, then I WILL NOT CONTACT YOU AGAIN.
Hubby told me that he feels that there is NO need for HER to know that we were together. Therefore he did not mention or clarify with HER about things regarding me.
The 2nd message was sent not long after the 1st. But the 2nd one was a very angry message. I can still remember the subject of the message. It says : RY** IS DEAD AND SH**NA IS OVER and the content is -
Do not talk to me if you are so busy with your things and we have to stop half the conversation !! I really hate you a lot a lot !! Since you did not update me your new phone number, I don’t think there’s a need to update u mine as well !! Do not ask about Girl Girl (their pet rabbit) anymore as I don’t tink she is related to you any more !! I started to hate you a lot a lot ever since that day you chased me out of your room. Life for me have to go on. FORGET ABOUT CALLING ME if you see me on the streets as the SH**NA you know is already not the same and the RY** I know is dead. I do not wish to put you in my memories and let’s treat is as we were never together before.
I really hate you a lot a lot !!!!!
Since hubby did not update HER his new number, it is very obvious that hubby doesn’t want to contact HER. So.. Who cares about SHE not updating him HER new number ?? Another thing…. SHE was being chased out. It is so humiliating but still... SHE doesn’t give up. Later you will see why….
After these 2 messages, I asked hubby if SHE did contact him in any other form. Hubby said yes. MSN. Whenever he log in, SHE will message him asking him how is he and so on. And recently(at that point of time), don’t know where the hell SHE went to HUNT for hubby’s number and after getting his number painstakingly, of cos SHE will sms him. SHE sms hubby asking him how is he. Hubby replied who is that. SHE replied its HER. Hubby then asked HER how SHE get his number and that was it. I don’t know if SHE replied but that was the last sms hubby sent HER.
Let me explain why did I use the word HUNT. When hubby changed a new number, hubby did not update HER as what was mention in the 2nd message. Hubby also WARNED his friends NOT TO give HER his number if SHE ever calls them and asked for it. Not even his family has his new number until much later. But SHE can be so thick skin and persistent by going to his friends asking for his number DESPERATELY when it is freaking obvious that hubby doesn’t want HER to have his new number. Who has the thickest skin on earth ? Not elephant, not crocodile but SH**NA. BOO HOO !!
But then again. I’m amazed by HER NEVER SAY DIE ATTITUDE. So, let’s give 3 cheers to MISS SH**NA. Hip hip hurray !! Hip hip hurray !! Hip hip hurray !!
Here comes the 3rd message. That was just a birthday message to hubby, wishing him happy birthday and SHE wish him success in everything he does. Now. Don’t you think that SHE has a split personality ?? In the 2nd message SHE was so angry and agitated that SHE kept saying SHE hates him a lot and wants nothing to do with him again and yet SHE is wishing him happy birthday now.
After all these, I got farking pissed off. You tell me. If you were me, will u be pissed ? What’s all this messages, hunting for his number and sms when SHE says ‘if she is really your girlfriend, I WILL NOT CONTACT YOU ANYMORE.’ Isn’t it obvious that we were together ?? SHE seems so confident and determine that SHE WILL NOT CONTACT hubby anymore but yet end of the day ?? Who is bugging who ?? If you can keep your words, then don’t say things so early !! End of the day you are just eating your words, you farking don’t practice what you preach and makes me feel that you are just talking cock and it shows what a person you are !!
After the smsing incident, I don’t know why SHE feels that we quarrel over HER and when hubby log in to msn, SHE kept asking if we were ok and APOLOGISED for making us quarrel. Hey. Please don’t be such a fako can ? After what you’ve done then you come and say sorry. For what fark ?
It was then I decided that enough is enough. I’m going to delete HER from hubby’s Friendster and block HER from his msn. Let me clarify that before I do anything, I did ask hubby how he feels about. He feels that it’s perfectly fine for me to do all these because it doesn’t make a difference to him if SHE is in his network a not. That is why I went ahead with it. If you think that of course he will say ok if not i will be kicking a fuss but sorry. You are wrong. At that time, i did tell hubby that since we just started not long, if he wants to go back to HER. i'm ok with it. Just tell me and i will leave. But hubby assured me that even if he's not with me, HE WILL NOT TAKE HER BACK.
After that, I did post a shout out in my Friendster. The message is for HER. It says –
Please don’t think too highly of yourself. Why would I be so stupid to quarrel with him over YOU, this UNWORTY B****. J
I think what I’ve done(deleting HER and etc) pissed HER off because SHE also posted something on HER shout out. It says –
I hate girls who are childish. CHEERS !! J
Oh oh… Let’s see who’s talking now !!! Who is the childish one who don’t understand that what’s over is over. SHE is already a PAST TENSE but yet SHE still can’t get over it. You had all these coming because of WHAT YOU HAVE DONE b**** !! You deserve it !! Though SHE did all these shit to me but still I have got no wish to blog about what SHE’VE done as I STILL WANA SAVE SOME FACE FOR HER
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I posted a new reply regarding this childish accusation. I don’t remember exactly what I wrote but it’s something like this -
Look who’s talking. Who is the childish one when YOU are the one who don’t understand that what’s over is over. J
After that, I received a SMILE on Friendster from our DEAR SH**NA !! Oh my god !! So trilled to receive a SMILE from HER !!! What is the purpose of that smile ? It’s because SHE posted a new reply and SHE wants me to see it. What is HER reply ?
I hate girls who think so highly of themselves. CHEERS !! J
At this point of time. PEACE LOVER VON is sick of all these cat fights as she feels that there is no point wasting time doing because of a CHILDISH person but who calls others CHILDISH. And end of the day, everything is still going to be back to square !! SHE WILL STILL BE THE PAST TENSE while I’M THE FUTURE. Therefore, I decide to write a last reply. I remember exactly what I wrote –
If you have the ability, just take him away from me. If not, stop doing all these things to make yourself look DESPERATE. No sorry, not look, in fact, YOU ARE. J
SHE did not reply anymore. I think end of the day SHE finally accepted the fact that everything is over and SHE knows that no matter what SHE does, nothing is going to change the reality. Therefore SHE choose to retreat. J
Those around us all know that something had happen between me and HER due to the shout out. All asked me to ignore HER as SHE is just seeking attention. I know… I know…. That is why I decide on the last reply……
Apart from all these, SHE has also done the following –
1)Add hubby’s close guy friends on Friendster. Btw, his friends were on my list because they were actually my customer in a pub which im working at. So that time before I got together with hubby we just random add each other lor.
I’m quite sure that SHE is the one who added them as according to what I know, sad to say NONE of hubby’s friends like HER and after knowing what SHE did, the more they were not likely to take initiative to add HER. Same as for HER, SHE doesn’t like his friends as well. So what’s the point of adding them only when you all have already broke up and when he is not related to you anymore. I mean, when you were with him, you refused to build a good relationship with his friends and why do you want or try to do it after everything is over ?? Doesn’t make sense right ?? Anyway… Just FYI, some of them don’t even know who you are and yet you try to act as if you were close to them. Shame on you.
2) According to one of hubby’s friend W. They seldom chat on msn. But 1 day our DEAR SH**NA message W out of the blue asking how is she and SHE told W that SHE has got a new boyfriend and he treats HER very well. Uh huh… So… What message are you trying to convey ?? That you have no regrets for what you’ve done as even without RY**, you are still as happy or maybe happier and better off than before ? For god’s sake. There’s no need to tell others how blissful you are. People have eyes to see.
3)I admit that I view HER Friendster in the past and it was actually a public viewable profile while mine is a private profile. I mean, all along I set private. Of cos there are a few times when I set them public as since SHE wants to see it so much, then just let HER see lor. After SHE’VE seen it, I’ll change it back to private. How I confirm that SHE came to view me ? Through the ‘Who view me’ la stupid. But after sometime, SOMEBODY also change HER profile to private. Tsk Tsk Tsk……
So on and off we will view each other's profile but all private. I must say that SHE did not come and view me as often as before because ‘COINCIDENTLY’ SHE came to multiply as well. There are more things to view here… So… Maybe that explains why…. And i wonder if i moved to elsewhere... Will i see HER there too ?? Nah... I think too much.. All these are 'COINCIDENCE' man...
Regarding the comments that I left on HER site, whether SHE reply a not, I will not make any further comment.
I can’t believe that I’ve spent freaking 4 hours on the blog entry. Actually only 2hours lor. But when I was about to save the 1st entry, I don’t know is the website or my internet hang and there goes my blog entry. So I have to retype and it means I spend a good 4 hours on this entry.
Anyway, I think this is not as good as the 1st one when I was writing the 1st one, everything just came naturally to my mind and I just blog it. For this entry, it’s sort of like a ‘copy’ entry. So I think I left out some of the things I wanted to say. But it’s ok.
Aite. Shall stop here. CHEERS !!! Muahaha !!
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woooohoooo.... bitch war??? hahaha
ok i am really so random
or isit... the other way round???
Life has been so boring and sian...why wannt make it worse..
i wanna go to maldives....
i am so random.....
...............................................................................
Here is a story to share from my ai....
After serious consideration and discussion with hubby, I’ve decided to write this entry regarding hubby’s ex girlfriend, SH**NA NE*.
Few days back I was browsing at who viewed my multiply site and I saw this name AMAZ**GJ**RNEY who came to view me 2 weeks ago. I thought who was that as the name seems rather fresh and when I clicked it, it was HER. That was a newly create site and it was such a ‘COINCIDENCE’ that SHE also used multiply as HER blog when there are so many others like Xanga, Wretch, Blogspot, Wordpress and so on. Maybe multiply is really good and USER FRIENDLY. Right ??
I’ve decided to leave a comment at HER site and this is what I wrote :
I thought who is this amaz**gj**rney who viewed my multiply and when i clicked it, it was u. What a surprise. Since you’ve sent me a SMILE on Friendster the last time, therefore I think I should leave a comment for you this time round. J
Thanks very much for viewing my multiply site and i wish to congrats u as from your multiply, I see that you'll be getting married soon. May u be as blissful as me.... oh... hope you'll be better off so that you'll have no regrets for what you've done.
Alright. I shall start my story now.
Hubby and I were together on 2nd sept 06 and after a few days we were together, SHE sent him 2 message on Friendster. Too bad hubby deleted his Friendster account. If not I can cut and paste the whole message here for you all to see. I don’t really remember exactly what SHE wrote but the 1st message was something like that –
Hi, seems like you have a new girlfriend now. If you don’t dare to admit that She, ‘VON’ is your girlfriend. Then I shall just assume it.. Please be fair to me and her. Tell me the truth as im feeling very miserable as im still trying hard for you. Thank you for treating me so good for the past 4 years. If she is really your girlfriend, then I WILL NOT CONTACT YOU AGAIN.
Hubby told me that he feels that there is NO need for HER to know that we were together. Therefore he did not mention or clarify with HER about things regarding me.
The 2nd message was sent not long after the 1st. But the 2nd one was a very angry message. I can still remember the subject of the message. It says : RY** IS DEAD AND SH**NA IS OVER and the content is -
Do not talk to me if you are so busy with your things and we have to stop half the conversation !! I really hate you a lot a lot !! Since you did not update me your new phone number, I don’t think there’s a need to update u mine as well !! Do not ask about Girl Girl (their pet rabbit) anymore as I don’t tink she is related to you any more !! I started to hate you a lot a lot ever since that day you chased me out of your room. Life for me have to go on. FORGET ABOUT CALLING ME if you see me on the streets as the SH**NA you know is already not the same and the RY** I know is dead. I do not wish to put you in my memories and let’s treat is as we were never together before.
I really hate you a lot a lot !!!!!
Since hubby did not update HER his new number, it is very obvious that hubby doesn’t want to contact HER. So.. Who cares about SHE not updating him HER new number ?? Another thing…. SHE was being chased out. It is so humiliating but still... SHE doesn’t give up. Later you will see why….
After these 2 messages, I asked hubby if SHE did contact him in any other form. Hubby said yes. MSN. Whenever he log in, SHE will message him asking him how is he and so on. And recently(at that point of time), don’t know where the hell SHE went to HUNT for hubby’s number and after getting his number painstakingly, of cos SHE will sms him. SHE sms hubby asking him how is he. Hubby replied who is that. SHE replied its HER. Hubby then asked HER how SHE get his number and that was it. I don’t know if SHE replied but that was the last sms hubby sent HER.
Let me explain why did I use the word HUNT. When hubby changed a new number, hubby did not update HER as what was mention in the 2nd message. Hubby also WARNED his friends NOT TO give HER his number if SHE ever calls them and asked for it. Not even his family has his new number until much later. But SHE can be so thick skin and persistent by going to his friends asking for his number DESPERATELY when it is freaking obvious that hubby doesn’t want HER to have his new number. Who has the thickest skin on earth ? Not elephant, not crocodile but SH**NA. BOO HOO !!
But then again. I’m amazed by HER NEVER SAY DIE ATTITUDE. So, let’s give 3 cheers to MISS SH**NA. Hip hip hurray !! Hip hip hurray !! Hip hip hurray !!
Here comes the 3rd message. That was just a birthday message to hubby, wishing him happy birthday and SHE wish him success in everything he does. Now. Don’t you think that SHE has a split personality ?? In the 2nd message SHE was so angry and agitated that SHE kept saying SHE hates him a lot and wants nothing to do with him again and yet SHE is wishing him happy birthday now.
After all these, I got farking pissed off. You tell me. If you were me, will u be pissed ? What’s all this messages, hunting for his number and sms when SHE says ‘if she is really your girlfriend, I WILL NOT CONTACT YOU ANYMORE.’ Isn’t it obvious that we were together ?? SHE seems so confident and determine that SHE WILL NOT CONTACT hubby anymore but yet end of the day ?? Who is bugging who ?? If you can keep your words, then don’t say things so early !! End of the day you are just eating your words, you farking don’t practice what you preach and makes me feel that you are just talking cock and it shows what a person you are !!
After the smsing incident, I don’t know why SHE feels that we quarrel over HER and when hubby log in to msn, SHE kept asking if we were ok and APOLOGISED for making us quarrel. Hey. Please don’t be such a fako can ? After what you’ve done then you come and say sorry. For what fark ?
It was then I decided that enough is enough. I’m going to delete HER from hubby’s Friendster and block HER from his msn. Let me clarify that before I do anything, I did ask hubby how he feels about. He feels that it’s perfectly fine for me to do all these because it doesn’t make a difference to him if SHE is in his network a not. That is why I went ahead with it. If you think that of course he will say ok if not i will be kicking a fuss but sorry. You are wrong. At that time, i did tell hubby that since we just started not long, if he wants to go back to HER. i'm ok with it. Just tell me and i will leave. But hubby assured me that even if he's not with me, HE WILL NOT TAKE HER BACK.
After that, I did post a shout out in my Friendster. The message is for HER. It says –
Please don’t think too highly of yourself. Why would I be so stupid to quarrel with him over YOU, this UNWORTY B****. J
I think what I’ve done(deleting HER and etc) pissed HER off because SHE also posted something on HER shout out. It says –
I hate girls who are childish. CHEERS !! J
Oh oh… Let’s see who’s talking now !!! Who is the childish one who don’t understand that what’s over is over. SHE is already a PAST TENSE but yet SHE still can’t get over it. You had all these coming because of WHAT YOU HAVE DONE b**** !! You deserve it !! Though SHE did all these shit to me but still I have got no wish to blog about what SHE’VE done as I STILL WANA SAVE SOME FACE FOR HER
.
I posted a new reply regarding this childish accusation. I don’t remember exactly what I wrote but it’s something like this -
Look who’s talking. Who is the childish one when YOU are the one who don’t understand that what’s over is over. J
After that, I received a SMILE on Friendster from our DEAR SH**NA !! Oh my god !! So trilled to receive a SMILE from HER !!! What is the purpose of that smile ? It’s because SHE posted a new reply and SHE wants me to see it. What is HER reply ?
I hate girls who think so highly of themselves. CHEERS !! J
At this point of time. PEACE LOVER VON is sick of all these cat fights as she feels that there is no point wasting time doing because of a CHILDISH person but who calls others CHILDISH. And end of the day, everything is still going to be back to square !! SHE WILL STILL BE THE PAST TENSE while I’M THE FUTURE. Therefore, I decide to write a last reply. I remember exactly what I wrote –
If you have the ability, just take him away from me. If not, stop doing all these things to make yourself look DESPERATE. No sorry, not look, in fact, YOU ARE. J
SHE did not reply anymore. I think end of the day SHE finally accepted the fact that everything is over and SHE knows that no matter what SHE does, nothing is going to change the reality. Therefore SHE choose to retreat. J
Those around us all know that something had happen between me and HER due to the shout out. All asked me to ignore HER as SHE is just seeking attention. I know… I know…. That is why I decide on the last reply……
Apart from all these, SHE has also done the following –
1)Add hubby’s close guy friends on Friendster. Btw, his friends were on my list because they were actually my customer in a pub which im working at. So that time before I got together with hubby we just random add each other lor.
I’m quite sure that SHE is the one who added them as according to what I know, sad to say NONE of hubby’s friends like HER and after knowing what SHE did, the more they were not likely to take initiative to add HER. Same as for HER, SHE doesn’t like his friends as well. So what’s the point of adding them only when you all have already broke up and when he is not related to you anymore. I mean, when you were with him, you refused to build a good relationship with his friends and why do you want or try to do it after everything is over ?? Doesn’t make sense right ?? Anyway… Just FYI, some of them don’t even know who you are and yet you try to act as if you were close to them. Shame on you.
2) According to one of hubby’s friend W. They seldom chat on msn. But 1 day our DEAR SH**NA message W out of the blue asking how is she and SHE told W that SHE has got a new boyfriend and he treats HER very well. Uh huh… So… What message are you trying to convey ?? That you have no regrets for what you’ve done as even without RY**, you are still as happy or maybe happier and better off than before ? For god’s sake. There’s no need to tell others how blissful you are. People have eyes to see.
3)I admit that I view HER Friendster in the past and it was actually a public viewable profile while mine is a private profile. I mean, all along I set private. Of cos there are a few times when I set them public as since SHE wants to see it so much, then just let HER see lor. After SHE’VE seen it, I’ll change it back to private. How I confirm that SHE came to view me ? Through the ‘Who view me’ la stupid. But after sometime, SOMEBODY also change HER profile to private. Tsk Tsk Tsk……
So on and off we will view each other's profile but all private. I must say that SHE did not come and view me as often as before because ‘COINCIDENTLY’ SHE came to multiply as well. There are more things to view here… So… Maybe that explains why…. And i wonder if i moved to elsewhere... Will i see HER there too ?? Nah... I think too much.. All these are 'COINCIDENCE' man...
Regarding the comments that I left on HER site, whether SHE reply a not, I will not make any further comment.
I can’t believe that I’ve spent freaking 4 hours on the blog entry. Actually only 2hours lor. But when I was about to save the 1st entry, I don’t know is the website or my internet hang and there goes my blog entry. So I have to retype and it means I spend a good 4 hours on this entry.
Anyway, I think this is not as good as the 1st one when I was writing the 1st one, everything just came naturally to my mind and I just blog it. For this entry, it’s sort of like a ‘copy’ entry. So I think I left out some of the things I wanted to say. But it’s ok.
Aite. Shall stop here. CHEERS !!! Muahaha !!
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woooohoooo.... bitch war??? hahaha
ok i am really so random
8:32 PM
